A Smorgasbord of Thought

When I wrote my post yesterday, I had no idea it would elicit so many reactions!  I have a few things I’d like to say.

Marcia – Thank you for your insight.  Yes, communication was the big issue.  It is something that Ben and I are trying to become really good at.  I especially liked what you said about me not being the reason behind my parents’ dissolution of  something that was in place before I was born.  That was a new way for me to look at it, and I am enjoying dissecting it in my mind.

Tammy – Thanks for sharing your story; I had no idea.  You are right that unresolved issues continue to wreak havoc no matter who we’re with.  A change of “scenery” does not change our character.

Lisa – The Billy Ray Cyrus of “Achy Breaky Heart” fame continues to haunt me in his latest role as Miley Cyrus’ father.  Pizza night lives on.  Thank you for your prayers.

Jason – It seems the student has become the teacher.  You are correct: my marriage is mine, and I cannot allow the outcome of others’ marriages to dictate the outcome of mine.  Thanks for the reminder.

Mrs. Pat – Such kind words!  I am so appreciative of your prayers.  Please tell Mr. Phil “hello” for me; for 23 years, I’ve thought of him everytime I’ve seen a fire truck in Irving.  I hope you’re both well.  (OH!  And CONGRATULATIONS on becoming grandparents to baby Zoe!  She is so sweet!!)

Daniel – We love you, too!  I hope that when things are worse, poor, and sick, we’ll be an example to others.

Suzanne – It makes me feel better to know that a completely sane person such as yourself struggles with some of the same issues that I do.  It’s easy for me to tell you that it’s not your fault; I hope that someday both of us are able to look at ourselves in the mirror, say the same thing, and recognize it as truth.

Okay, onward!  I have a few random things I need to get out.

• Huge corporate shout-out to OxiClean and Tide for getting the baby’s laundry clean – every time – with minimal effort on my part.  Mom taught me that there are some things you just don’t skimp on; so far, my list includes: laundry detergent, toilet paper, and instant oatmeal (Always Quaker.  Always.).
• Brynleigh and I have been dancing around the house today to the musical stylings of one Mr. Michael Jackson.  The King of Pop lives on in the Seifipour household!
• My KitchenAid mixer arrived today.  It’s pistachio green.  It’s so cool I’m almost jealous of myself.
• In summertime, hot food is my enemy.  I could eat cold salads and fruit all day long.  I am hoping this translates into some weight loss, but we’ll see.  I still heart carbs, much to Ben’s chagrin.

That’s all for the moment.  Have a great weekend!

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